Touching someone’s life.

That amazing moment when someone gets impacted by another person’s deed.

The magical feeling when the person impacted shares one’s emotional feedback. The surprise the moment brings.The unexpected to and fro of thought, the priceless feeling that lingers. That makes the moment memorable.

Interestingly this works for both. The recipient as also the one who initiates such action.

Can one design such moments?
Can one plan and expectantly get the results one sets.
How are they different from meeting business targets? From achieving objectives?

Can one create a formulae that can lead to the delivery of the ‘moment’.

Yes & no.

Yes, for with a little practice one can spot gaps which when bridged can take the receipient to feeling emotionally enriched.

One needs to be looking though. To be sensitive. To feel for someone else. To want to make an impact on another person. To want to better someone’s world. To like the idea of making someone smile. To want to find meaning in helping others. To being simply a human. A good person.

Does it look any easier now!

Step out of your self contained zones, and go practice.

Over a period of time these might well turn out to be the most precious moments you would have ever lived.

And if you thought ‘no’… only if one doesn’t want to make a difference in another person life. The choice is always upto us.

When We Agree On Something.

So much goes into a seemingly simple thing as deciding to do a task.

Two people, or a team decides to do something and that’s but the beginning of so many things happening before the result comes forth.

 At each stage is some discussion, some thought exchange, followed by action, then evaluation, then further action before one gets to an agreed stand point.

It could be a designer interacting with her craftsmen, an engineer with his technical team,  a consultant forcasting a plan for a client, a coach with his wards, a teacher with her pupil. Even a pet with her master!

Does it look any easier now!

Of making sense of time, of energies, of having a purposeful day.

And in the ultimatum, life.

And what if the other person did not understand you? Did not deliver basis plan? Misinterpreted something.

So much we get done by believing in the others abilities, education,experience, trusting  one’s judgement.

So much depends on where we are coming from. Our back grounds, our orientation to get things done.

So much each individual goes through in life to reach a point where people come together to agree on something.